Accountability Questions For Your Brother in Christ

The Accountable Man: Pursuing Integrity Through Trust and Friendship


1. Are you spending time alone with God?
2. How much time did you spend in prayer this week?
3. Are you walking in total obedience to God?
4. Is your thought life pure?
5. Are you misusing your power or authority in any way?
6. Did you pray for others in our group?
7. Did you put yourself in an awkward situation with a woman?
8. At any time did you compromise your integrity?
9. What one sin plagued your walk with God this week?
10. Did you accomplish your spiritual goals this week?
11. Are you giving to the Lord’s work financially?
12. How have you demonstrated a servant’s heart?
13. Do you treat your peers and coworkers as people loved by God?
14. What significant thing did you do for your wife and/or family?
15. What was your biggest disappointment? How did you decide to handle it?
16. What was your biggest joy? Did you thank God for it?
17. What do you see as your number one need for next week?
18. Are you satisfied with the time you spent with the Lord this week?
19. Did you take time to show compassion for others in need?
20. Do you control your tongue?
21. What did you do this week to enhance your relationship with your spouse?
22. Did you pray and read God’s Word this week? What did you gain from this time?
23. In what ways have you launched out in faith since we last met?
24. In what ways has God blessed you this week?
25. And what disappointments consumed your thoughts this week?
26. Did you look at a woman in the wrong way?
27. How have you been tempted this week? How did you respond?
28. How has your relationship with Christ been changing?
29. Did you worship in church this week?
30. Have you shared your faith this week? How?
31. What are you wrestling with in your thought life?
32. What have you done for someone else this week?
33. Are the “visible” you, and the “real” you consistent in all your relationships?
34. Have you lied about any of the previous questions we talked about?
35. Can I pray with you now?



This list is excerpted from the book Seven Promises of a Promise Keeper, "The Call to Sexual Purity" by John Maxwell (p. 81):


This list is excerpted from the books focusing Your Men’s Ministry by Pete Richardson (pgs. 50-51) and


Brothers! by Geoff Gorsuch with Dan Schaffer (pgs. 95-96)


Energizing Men of Integrity